戏如人生

Hi all..

It’s been a long time I didn’t update my blog and didn’t really reply those who leave a comment here..

Thousand apologize here and thanks for coming back for my post..

This is my next post and very sorry to inform you guys that I am writing it in Chinese..

To those who really can’t read it… Really sorry...


戏如人生

我们常常把这句话挂在嘴边。

人生真的是如戏吗？

我不知道。

但是，人的想像力真的有那么赞吗？

编剧的真的可以把场场戏都演变成真的一样吗？

我不敢说编剧的往往必须经过某某经验才能把一出戏编好。

但是，巧合不是用词。

我本人相信戏如人生这四个字。

但，我们不能活在戏里面。

我们不能让并且等待我们下一幕。

我们必须拥有自己的剧本，好好把剧本中的自己扮演好。

每一个人天生都是一个演员。

我们只可以为自己所写的剧本活下去。

没有任何一方能为别人写或改写。

戏如人生。

好好地在幕前扮演好自己的角色吧！

...Third Gender...

There will be no such thing as third sex but there is something that we can name it as third gender....

India’s government had put a third column in their citizens' identity card and the column is labelled as E which stands for Eunuch which is the term used for cross dresses....

I was quite amazed and shocked when I read this through an article in today's The Sun paper....

Cross dresses had been a long history and it had occurred long time ago during the Mesopotamia time when Hatshepsut wore a fake beard....

Time has changed and came to a different world when everyone can actually take transvestite easily....

They no longer look at them with a weird look...

They can now view them as someone normal...

We are taking all taking for granted as time comes...

When we are used to it, we no longer think that much and just accept it...

I wonder when Malaysia can be so open minded and have a third column in our identification card....

Will that be happen one day??

Who knows….

Reference : The Sun (20th April 2009)

War

There is war everywhere in the world now…

When can all the war stop??

When can we actually have a peaceful life in every single corner??

Well, I do not have the power and I am lack of knowledge on talking about war here compared to many of them outside of my world….

Why am I talking about war since I am not capable to do so?

Well, I would like to point out something on.....

...War between women…

The women’s fight…. Lol….

Back to traditional lifestyle where patriarchy is very strong in the society…

They can have more than one wives and if you have only one wife, the man will stare at you in a weird way while the woman will be jealous of your wife…

Either you are willing or not, you have to obey your parents’ order if they want you to have concubine… maybe not concubine but concubinessssssssss…

In the olden days, if the first wife could not born a baby boy, and after several pregnancies and all of them are baby girl, the parents will urge their son to have a second wife..

I think I need not explain much on these as almost everyone of us knows the meaning hidden…

They do not know that women are not the only one who could and should be blamed as the science and technology in the olden days are not that developed yet…

Well, back to the topic… war…

When there are more than one woman holding and sitting in a family, there will be internal affairs like what the company nowadays have…

They will have to fight with each and other to grab the husband’s 'heart'…

The one who have a baby boy born will have a bigger power…

The one who knows the best way to lure the man will be sitting in a higher position…

The one who can actually acts the best will be having a bigger authority….

All these had come to one conclusion….

The fighting among women….

The women themselves fight among themselves to win the higher status in the family…
If they are married to a richer family, they will be aiming for the heritage that her husband has….

If she is from a wealthy family and she is helping her husband’s family in any ways, she will have the major power and sometimes her parents-in-law need to listen to her too…

Well, if her husband is getting the second wife, she has no choice but to accept it if she cannot be able to born a baby boy….

Marrying another wife for her husband does not mean that she is accepting the facts that had been built under the patriarchy society…

The second wife normally will be exploited by the first wife….

When we are talking about gender inequality, we were talking about how man dominates, exploits women….

Why not we as women stand together and stop all the war among women…

If women are uniting, women saying no to the man who ask them to be the second wife or to be his mistress who is not under protected of the law, how can the man have so many concubines…

We used to say women are not treated equally under those circumstances…

I could not deny that there is a lot of gender inequality cases found in the society…

But, man is not the one to be blamed sometimes…

Maybe woman fighting for their position in the family is not a wrong thing… But, woman actually can stop all these war....

Well, look at this...

The most important thing for a woman is her family….

Woman who has traditional thinking will put her family in the first place….

They want their power to be on hand and they want themselves to be seen….

They do not want their husband to ‘divide’ his heart to a bigger portion to another woman….

It is the same theory if we turn it into another way….

A man in his post will be more likely to wish his boss to see him more, appreciate his work more..

He would prefer he himself to be at a higher position and have a better and usable power..

He does not want to be under someone else forever….

It is under the same principle but we are looking at the different way….

Things are fixed and rounded…

We can actually apply everything here and there….

The government wants all the races to unite to defeat the enemy of the country….

Woman can actually unite and stand together to fight back the man if they want too…

I know everyone of us know that women are strong and capable to do so….

They can actually act better than men if they want to..

Do you want to see all these happen?

Or remaining in the same situation, naming the woman staying at home should be better??

Or we can either have a discussion among the man and woman in the family to decide all these….

All these can be discussed and be ended up with a nice and perfect conclusion without war….

So, why war??

Isn’t that starting a war is actually something foolish??

So, stop war…. Create peace…..

;0)

Gender

How do you define gender??

What plays in your mind if you see a muscular man wearing a skirt?

Will you marry a girl who does not know how to do domestic work?

Will you let your offspring follows your wife’s last name?

There are strict rule saying that women should be sexually inactive (once upon a time)..

What do you think about this?

Women who are sexually active are classified as ‘slags’ whereas those who are not had been classified as ‘drags’… (nowadays)

How can you explain this statement??

Do you mind if your spouse is not virgin when you marry her?

Traditional woman should know how to cook and sew…

However, good chef and good tailor in the commercial line are always male….

Why is it so??


I dare you to answer all the above ??

Strategy of marketing…

When I was working on my toilet blog, some of my coursemates will be working on ‘alcohol advertising encroaching the youth market’ …

However, they could not really manage to reach the criteria..

I think this is not their fault as we are in Penang…

Why do I say so?

The reason is, I went into both cinemas in Penang and KL..

I found that in Penang’s cinema, they do not have much alcohol advertising compared to KL..

And some of the film does not even have one alcohol advertising whereas KL’s film has two to three…

I went to Pavilion and watch a movie yesterday…. Only one film but there are three alcohol advertising… They are Anglia Shandy, VSOP and one more that I am not so sure..

Why is it so?

The facts that we could not deny is that when companies are advertising, they do look back for profit…

Back to the cinema in Penang, I can actually get a very very nice seat if I am purchasing my ticket 10 minutes before the show start….

If I am purchasing my movie ticket in KL, I think I might have to choose a movie which is not that popular… If not, I can only get the front seat ticket…

Can you see the situation?

There are less people buying movie ticket in Penang compared in KL….

The alcohol companies do not want to lose their money to advertise in Penang that does not bring up their company’s yearly revenue…

They are smart business organization and they do have their strategy on marketing….!!

What is this?

I am back to post up something on my weblog….

Well, the sem had over and I can now blog whatever I want to…

Just wanna bring up this issue…

I went to buy my bus ticket that day with my friend and it cost me RM1.00 from my uni to the terminal…

When I have my ticket on hand, I took another bus to a shopping mall..

When I hopped into this bus and get the last seat, I saw this…

What had happen to this society?

They want to advertise their name and telephone on the seat in this way?

They have nothing to do and want to spoil the cushion seat in this way??

Do have a look and judge yourself…

??

Time flies…

I had blog on this weblog for about few months and I used up plenty of my time during this semester to work out on this weblog..

It finally came to an end….

However, I do not plan to delete it and will try to maintain it but I will not update that frequent as I do have numerous things to be done…

I will maintain this weblog as long as I can and do hope I will not delete it one day….

Do come back for my next post…. :)

I will no longer only post about toilet…

I will blog from A to Z, from none to infinity…. Cheers!!

Rating?

This is the food premises toilet star rating issued by the Kota Kinabalu City Hall…

Erm… What a new improvement the city hall has….

Do other state rating the food premises' toilet in this way too?

Or they didn’t even bother to know??