Monday, 27 April 2009


Privacy = ?

It is really a term that is hard to be explained….

Well, I think almost everyone knows what does it means…


Everyone needs it….

We need it….!!

But, are we really protecting our privacy??


We are disposing it?

Erm… need some time to digest and think ya…. Haha….

When there are actual border in life when we are living in a village, we will be thinking that we do not have any privacy as your neighbour or I probably should say is the whole village will know that you actually pee on your pants… haha...

You felt embarrassed and wanna kill the one who actually tell the facts to the third party and news spread like lighting….

When time comes to the digital world, we are all closed up in our room and we are protecting our privacy as we assumed…

But, we are uploading photos, thoughts (like what I am doing right now), diaries etc online…

The one around us, for instance our neighbour know nothing about us…

But, the one in the cyber world, mostly stranger know us better than them…

The one in the cyber world actually know us well and much better than the one in the real life….

So, are we protecting our privacy or exposing it in another way??

Do you feel better to tell others about yourself thru net and not in the real life???

Think about it… hehe....


Sunday, 26 April 2009

Letter from a Animal Shelter Manager

Subject: Fwd: Letter from a Animal Shelter Manager (the sad truth!)
Get out your tissues before you read this.

Begin forwarded message:

Help spread the education by fowarding this!But be forewarned that this will be upsetting and sensitive to your hearts.Sincerely, Lisa aka Kat Education people, EDUCATION!! Let's pray that 2009spares more lives than the 11 million killed this year...(do not stop reading until you've reached the end)

A Letter from a Shelter Manager: I think our society needs a huge " Wake-up" call.As a shelter manager, I am going to share a little insight with you all. ..a view from the inside if you will.
First off, all of you breeders/sellers should be madeto work in the "back" of an animal shelter for justone day.

Maybe if you saw the life drain from a few sad, lost,confused eyes, you would change your mind about breeding and selling to people you don't even know. That puppy youjust sold will most likely end up in my shelter whenit's not a cute little puppy anymore.

So how would you feel if you knew that there's about a> 90% chance that dog will never walk out of the shelter it is going to be dumped at? Purebred or not! About 50% of all of the dogs that are "owner surrenders" or "strays" that come into my shelter are purebred dogs.

The most common excuses I hear are;

"We are moving and we can't take our dog (or cat)." Really? Where are you moving to that doesn't allow pets and why did you choose that place instead of a pet friendly home?
Or they say "The dog got bigger than we thought it would". How big did you think a German Shepherd would get?

"We don't have time for her". Really? I work a 10- 12 hour day and still have time for my 6 dogs!

"She' s tearing up our yard". How about making her a part of your family?

They always tell me: "We just don't want to have to stress about finding a place for her we know she'll get adopted, she's a good dog."

Odds are your pet won't get adopted & how stressfuldo you think being in a shelter is? Well, let me tell you,your pet has 72 hours to find a new family from the momentyou drop it off. Sometimes a little longer if the shelterisn't full and your dog manages to stay completelyhealthy. If it sniffles, it dies.

Your pet will be confined to a small run/kennel in a roomwith about 25 other barking or crying animals. It will haveto relieve itself where it eats and sleeps.

It will be depressed and it will cry constantly for thefamily that abandoned it.

If your pet is lucky, I will have enough volunteers in thatday to take him/her for a walk. If I don't, your petwon't get any attention besides having a bowl of foodslid under the kennel door and the waste sprayed out of itspen with a high-powered hose.

If your dog is big, black or any of the "Bully"breeds (pit bull, rottie, mastiff, etc) it was pretty muchdead when you walked it through the front door. Those dogsjust don't get adopted.

It doesn't matter how 'sweet' or 'well behaved' they are. If your dog doesn't get adopted within its 72 hours and the shelter is full, it will be destroyed.

If the shelter isn't full and your dog is good enough,and of a desirable enough breed it may get a stay ofexecution, but not for long.

Most dogs get very kennel protective after about a week and are destroyed for showing aggression. Even the sweetest dogs will turn in this environment.

If your pet makes it over all of those hurdles chances areit will get kennel cough or an upper respiratory infectionand will be destroyed because shelters just don't havethe funds to pay for even a $100 treatment. Here's a little euthanasia 101 for those of you thathave never witnessed a perfectly healthy, scared animalbeing "put-down"....

First, your pet will be taken from its kennel on a leash.They always look like they think they are going for a walk -happy, wagging their tails.

Until, they get to "The Room", every one of themfreak out and put the brakes on when we get to the door. Itmust smell like death or they can feel the sad souls thatare left in there, it's strange, but it happens withevery one of them.

Your dog or cat will be restrained, held down by 1 or 2 vettechs depending on the size and how freaked out they are.

Then a euthanasia tech or a vet will start the process.They will find a vein in the front leg and inject a lethaldose of the "pink stuff".

Hopefully your pet doesn't panic from being restrainedand jerk. I've seen the needles tear out of a leg andbeen covered with the resulting blood and been deafened bythe yelps and screams.

They all don't just "go to sleep", sometimesthey spasm for a while, gasp for air and defecate onthemselves.

When it all ends, your pet's corpse will be stackedlike firewood in a large freezer in the back with all of theother animals that were killed waiting to be picked up likegarbage.

What happens next? Cremated? Taken to the dump? Renderedinto pet food? You'll never know and it probablywon't even cross your mind. It was just an animal andyou can always buy another one, right?

I hope that those of you that have read this are bawlingyour eyes out and can't get the pictures out of yourhead I deal with everyday on the way home from work.

I hate my job, I hate that it exists & I hate that itwill always be there unless you people make some changes andrealize that the lives you are affecting go much furtherthan the pets you dump at a shelter.

Between 9 and 11 MILLION animals die every year in sheltersand only you can stop it. I do my best to save every life Ican but rescues are always full, and there are more animalscoming in everyday than there are homes.


Hate me if you want to. The truth hurts and reality is whatit is.

I just hope I maybe changed one person's mind aboutbreeding their dog, taking their loving pet to a shelter, orbuying a dog.

I hope that someone will walk into my shelter and say"I saw this and it made me want to adopt." THATWOULD MAKE IT WORTH IT!



Polygamy can be exist when a male married more than one female as his wife or a female married more than one male as her husband or a mixture of both conditions….

Do you agree with polygamy?

I think most of us do not want to see this happening but, can we control all these?

As what most of them saying, love is uncontrollable…

We cannot control our feelings and we do not want to throw our first spouse away…

Anyways, in the context of polygamy, there are more male marrying more than one female compared to female marrying more than one husband….

Why is this situation appeared?

Is it because there are more female in the society in nature?


Is it because the men want to show their masculinity?


Is it the men want to show how much their savings are that they can actually sustain 2, 3, 4 or 5 families?

Why are all these happening?

Can we stop all these?

You might want to tell me that we can actually stop it but, polygamy has an ancient history and it is not that if I would like to have one to one policy then it can be worked…

However, polygamy is sometimes an excuse for those who want to have more than one partner…

Either to a female or male…

It is a kind of selfish acts when s/he wants to have another partner and do not want to dump the previous one….

There are lots of human kinds in the earth.. I should better name it as the world….

As long as you are willing to stay on the polygamy society and environment, you are willing to be the first or the second or the third mistress or mister…

I don’t think anyone of us have to right to stop you as this is what you wish and we can only stay aside and watch what will happen on next….

At the end here…

Good luck to those who are living in the polygamy environment and to those who wants to step into this conflict, do think twice and I think there is always someone who will support you somewhere….

Choose on what you wish and do not feel regret when time comes… be responsible on your own decision….

All the best…

Cheers... (:

Thursday, 23 April 2009


Hi all..

It’s been a long time I didn’t update my blog and didn’t really reply those who leave a comment here..

Thousand apologize here and thanks for coming back for my post..

This is my next post and very sorry to inform you guys that I am writing it in Chinese..

To those who really can’t read it… Really sorry...


















Monday, 20 April 2009

...Third Gender...

There will be no such thing as third sex but there is something that we can name it as third gender....

India’s government had put a third column in their citizens' identity card and the column is labelled as E which stands for Eunuch which is the term used for cross dresses....

I was quite amazed and shocked when I read this through an article in today's The Sun paper....

Cross dresses had been a long history and it had occurred long time ago during the Mesopotamia time when Hatshepsut wore a fake beard....

Time has changed and came to a different world when everyone can actually take transvestite easily....

They no longer look at them with a weird look...

They can now view them as someone normal...

We are taking all taking for granted as time comes...

When we are used to it, we no longer think that much and just accept it...

I wonder when Malaysia can be so open minded and have a third column in our identification card....

Will that be happen one day??

Who knows….

Reference : The Sun (20th April 2009)

Wednesday, 15 April 2009


There is war everywhere in the world now…

When can all the war stop??

When can we actually have a peaceful life in every single corner??

Well, I do not have the power and I am lack of knowledge on talking about war here compared to many of them outside of my world….

Why am I talking about war since I am not capable to do so?

Well, I would like to point out something on.....
...War between women…

The women’s fight…. Lol….

Back to traditional lifestyle where patriarchy is very strong in the society…

They can have more than one wives and if you have only one wife, the man will stare at you in a weird way while the woman will be jealous of your wife…

Either you are willing or not, you have to obey your parents’ order if they want you to have concubine… maybe not concubine but concubinessssssssss…

In the olden days, if the first wife could not born a baby boy, and after several pregnancies and all of them are baby girl, the parents will urge their son to have a second wife..

I think I need not explain much on these as almost everyone of us knows the meaning hidden…

They do not know that women are not the only one who could and should be blamed as the science and technology in the olden days are not that developed yet…

Well, back to the topic… war…

When there are more than one woman holding and sitting in a family, there will be internal affairs like what the company nowadays have…

They will have to fight with each and other to grab the husband’s 'heart'…

The one who have a baby boy born will have a bigger power…

The one who knows the best way to lure the man will be sitting in a higher position…

The one who can actually acts the best will be having a bigger authority….

All these had come to one conclusion….

The fighting among women….

The women themselves fight among themselves to win the higher status in the family…
If they are married to a richer family, they will be aiming for the heritage that her husband has….

If she is from a wealthy family and she is helping her husband’s family in any ways, she will have the major power and sometimes her parents-in-law need to listen to her too…

Well, if her husband is getting the second wife, she has no choice but to accept it if she cannot be able to born a baby boy….

Marrying another wife for her husband does not mean that she is accepting the facts that had been built under the patriarchy society…

The second wife normally will be exploited by the first wife….

When we are talking about gender inequality, we were talking about how man dominates, exploits women….

Why not we as women stand together and stop all the war among women…

If women are uniting, women saying no to the man who ask them to be the second wife or to be his mistress who is not under protected of the law, how can the man have so many concubines…

We used to say women are not treated equally under those circumstances…

I could not deny that there is a lot of gender inequality cases found in the society…

But, man is not the one to be blamed sometimes…

Maybe woman fighting for their position in the family is not a wrong thing… But, woman actually can stop all these war....
Well, look at this...

The most important thing for a woman is her family….

Woman who has traditional thinking will put her family in the first place….

They want their power to be on hand and they want themselves to be seen….

They do not want their husband to ‘divide’ his heart to a bigger portion to another woman….

It is the same theory if we turn it into another way….

A man in his post will be more likely to wish his boss to see him more, appreciate his work more..

He would prefer he himself to be at a higher position and have a better and usable power..

He does not want to be under someone else forever….

It is under the same principle but we are looking at the different way….

Things are fixed and rounded…

We can actually apply everything here and there….

The government wants all the races to unite to defeat the enemy of the country….

Woman can actually unite and stand together to fight back the man if they want too…

I know everyone of us know that women are strong and capable to do so….

They can actually act better than men if they want to..

Do you want to see all these happen?

Or remaining in the same situation, naming the woman staying at home should be better??

Or we can either have a discussion among the man and woman in the family to decide all these….

All these can be discussed and be ended up with a nice and perfect conclusion without war….

So, why war??

Isn’t that starting a war is actually something foolish??

So, stop war…. Create peace…..

Monday, 13 April 2009


How do you define gender??

What plays in your mind if you see a muscular man wearing a skirt?

Will you marry a girl who does not know how to do domestic work?

Will you let your offspring follows your wife’s last name?

There are strict rule saying that women should be sexually inactive (once upon a time)..

What do you think about this?

Women who are sexually active are classified as ‘slags’ whereas those who are not had been classified as ‘drags’… (nowadays)

How can you explain this statement??

Do you mind if your spouse is not virgin when you marry her?

Traditional woman should know how to cook and sew…

However, good chef and good tailor in the commercial line are always male….

Why is it so??

I dare you to answer all the above ??

Thursday, 9 April 2009

Strategy of marketing…

When I was working on my toilet blog, some of my coursemates will be working on ‘alcohol advertising encroaching the youth market’ …

However, they could not really manage to reach the criteria..

I think this is not their fault as we are in Penang…

Why do I say so?

The reason is, I went into both cinemas in Penang and KL..

I found that in Penang’s cinema, they do not have much alcohol advertising compared to KL..

And some of the film does not even have one alcohol advertising whereas KL’s film has two to three…

I went to Pavilion and watch a movie yesterday…. Only one film but there are three alcohol advertising… They are Anglia Shandy, VSOP and one more that I am not so sure..

Why is it so?

The facts that we could not deny is that when companies are advertising, they do look back for profit…

Back to the cinema in Penang, I can actually get a very very nice seat if I am purchasing my ticket 10 minutes before the show start….

If I am purchasing my movie ticket in KL, I think I might have to choose a movie which is not that popular… If not, I can only get the front seat ticket…

Can you see the situation?

There are less people buying movie ticket in Penang compared in KL….

The alcohol companies do not want to lose their money to advertise in Penang that does not bring up their company’s yearly revenue…

They are smart business organization and they do have their strategy on marketing….!!

Sunday, 5 April 2009

What is this?

I am back to post up something on my weblog….

Well, the sem had over and I can now blog whatever I want to…

Just wanna bring up this issue…

I went to buy my bus ticket that day with my friend and it cost me RM1.00 from my uni to the terminal…

When I have my ticket on hand, I took another bus to a shopping mall..

When I hopped into this bus and get the last seat, I saw this…

What had happen to this society?

They want to advertise their name and telephone on the seat in this way?

They have nothing to do and want to spoil the cushion seat in this way??

Do have a look and judge yourself…

Saturday, 4 April 2009


Time flies…

I had blog on this weblog for about few months and I used up plenty of my time during this semester to work out on this weblog..

It finally came to an end….

However, I do not plan to delete it and will try to maintain it but I will not update that frequent as I do have numerous things to be done…

I will maintain this weblog as long as I can and do hope I will not delete it one day….

Do come back for my next post…. :)

I will no longer only post about toilet…

I will blog from A to Z, from none to infinity…. Cheers!!

Wednesday, 1 April 2009


This is the food premises toilet star rating issued by the Kota Kinabalu City Hall…

Erm… What a new improvement the city hall has….

Do other state rating the food premises' toilet in this way too?

Or they didn’t even bother to know??