War

There is war everywhere in the world now…

When can all the war stop??

When can we actually have a peaceful life in every single corner??

Well, I do not have the power and I am lack of knowledge on talking about war here compared to many of them outside of my world….

Why am I talking about war since I am not capable to do so?

Well, I would like to point out something on.....

...War between women…

The women’s fight…. Lol….

Back to traditional lifestyle where patriarchy is very strong in the society…

They can have more than one wives and if you have only one wife, the man will stare at you in a weird way while the woman will be jealous of your wife…

Either you are willing or not, you have to obey your parents’ order if they want you to have concubine… maybe not concubine but concubinessssssssss…

In the olden days, if the first wife could not born a baby boy, and after several pregnancies and all of them are baby girl, the parents will urge their son to have a second wife..

I think I need not explain much on these as almost everyone of us knows the meaning hidden…

They do not know that women are not the only one who could and should be blamed as the science and technology in the olden days are not that developed yet…

Well, back to the topic… war…

When there are more than one woman holding and sitting in a family, there will be internal affairs like what the company nowadays have…

They will have to fight with each and other to grab the husband’s 'heart'…

The one who have a baby boy born will have a bigger power…

The one who knows the best way to lure the man will be sitting in a higher position…

The one who can actually acts the best will be having a bigger authority….

All these had come to one conclusion….

The fighting among women….

The women themselves fight among themselves to win the higher status in the family…
If they are married to a richer family, they will be aiming for the heritage that her husband has….

If she is from a wealthy family and she is helping her husband’s family in any ways, she will have the major power and sometimes her parents-in-law need to listen to her too…

Well, if her husband is getting the second wife, she has no choice but to accept it if she cannot be able to born a baby boy….

Marrying another wife for her husband does not mean that she is accepting the facts that had been built under the patriarchy society…

The second wife normally will be exploited by the first wife….

When we are talking about gender inequality, we were talking about how man dominates, exploits women….

Why not we as women stand together and stop all the war among women…

If women are uniting, women saying no to the man who ask them to be the second wife or to be his mistress who is not under protected of the law, how can the man have so many concubines…

We used to say women are not treated equally under those circumstances…

I could not deny that there is a lot of gender inequality cases found in the society…

But, man is not the one to be blamed sometimes…

Maybe woman fighting for their position in the family is not a wrong thing… But, woman actually can stop all these war....

Well, look at this...

The most important thing for a woman is her family….

Woman who has traditional thinking will put her family in the first place….

They want their power to be on hand and they want themselves to be seen….

They do not want their husband to ‘divide’ his heart to a bigger portion to another woman….

It is the same theory if we turn it into another way….

A man in his post will be more likely to wish his boss to see him more, appreciate his work more..

He would prefer he himself to be at a higher position and have a better and usable power..

He does not want to be under someone else forever….

It is under the same principle but we are looking at the different way….

Things are fixed and rounded…

We can actually apply everything here and there….

The government wants all the races to unite to defeat the enemy of the country….

Woman can actually unite and stand together to fight back the man if they want too…

I know everyone of us know that women are strong and capable to do so….

They can actually act better than men if they want to..

Do you want to see all these happen?

Or remaining in the same situation, naming the woman staying at home should be better??

Or we can either have a discussion among the man and woman in the family to decide all these….

All these can be discussed and be ended up with a nice and perfect conclusion without war….

So, why war??

Isn’t that starting a war is actually something foolish??

So, stop war…. Create peace…..

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